My parents live about 300km from Melbourne. Last night the phone rang at 10.20pm. It was my Mum, saying my Dad had been airlifted to the Alfred Hospital and was in the trauma centre with a fractured skull and bleeding on the brain after being struck by the boom of another yacht during a race yesterday. Mum had to organise some things and wouldn't be coming down until today. I went to the hospital straight away, arriving at about 11pm. My sister C came in at about 1am and we sat with Dad until morning, holding his hand and talking to him. Even though he was unconscious most of the time, drifting in and out, we just wanted someone he knew to be there. When he finally did awake, he was very disoriented but could recognise us and move all his limbs, which the nurses and registrars told us was a good sign. C went home to her place to meet Mum and bring her into the hospital. I stayed with Dad, who was getting more responsive and restless. After a while my brothers arrived, and then Mum and C. The neurologist told us that the bleeding and swelling were minor and that Dad would require a lot of rest to allow the fractures to heal. No surgery. Very strong likelihood of a full recovery. Phew.
I got home at 2pm and had a short nap before Noddie's kinder concert. Now we are preparing for her (somewhat pared-down) birthday party tomorrow. We've got to stop inviting everyone we know to these things. I'm feeling a bit shaken and very tired, but so very thankful.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Phew
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Glad to hear he is going to be ok. I hate seeing the choppers because I know it means someone has been bought into the Trauma centre. Hope Noddie has a great party and birthday.
What a relief that must have been. Hope you get to fit in some extra nap time along the way and that your dad is back to full health soon.
How scary! I'm so happy to hear that he's progresing well, though.
ohhh my, how scary! i will be thinking of him and your family. take care matey.
Wow-he must have taken quite a hit! So glad he is going to be OK and recognizes you-good thoughts and prayers sent across the ocean.
Crapola!! I'm praying for you dad and you guys to have strength through this!!!
Oh my goodness! i am so glad you were able to get to him and be with him when he woke up. it is a good sign that he is moving about. I wish him (and you) a speedy recovery from all of this.. Take care of you. *hugs*
good lord. Thank God for a happy ending. What a fright for you all!
Sorry I've been awol; i have a lot of catching up to do!
Wow - I'm so glad to hear he'll be OK - what a scare!Best wishes to him for a speedy recovery!
Phew indeed! My fingers are crossed for a speedy full recovery....and here's hoping you get some good sleep before the big party!
:D
Get well Dad! And duck next time! Hope he is okay and good luck with your party. If you need emergency babysitters for hospital visits just ring me.
Ok - everyone else has covered what I would say about your dad so ......
On Sunday - go hard, no lame duck excuses, just do the best you can on the day ..... put what you learned during winter into practise and be the person I know you are ....
I am not competing but am hoping to get down there so will try to find you .... what time do you start ?
Take care
Eat Em
PS ; I have no doubt that the party will be spoken of in the years to come :-)
I'm so relieved to hear your dad is ok. I hope the party went well. The photos are lovely.
What a horribly stressful time!
My riding partner had some bleeding on the brain and completely recovered very quickly. I think folks get scared by the thought but I think the brain can get bruised and bleed and heal just like any other part of the body.
I hope your Dad is continuing to heal well!
Mary
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